Relationship

You don't have to be a psychologist to know that a relationship between a mother and her daughter starts very early. In time, it can change a lot; it can turn into a beautiful friendship or into a strained link that could be improved. But no matter what, the woman that gave birth to us will remain the most important person in our lives and we'll always return to her when we'll have serious problems to face.


A relationship between a mother and her daughter has a head start, meaning that, while the daughter is little, she sees her mother as a diva, as a life model. Remember when you were little and you were taking your mother's lipsticks and perfumes? You tried all her clothes and her shoes and one day, you wished you could be like her. This situation will change when the little girl will turn into a teenager, and when she'll be abut thirteen, she'll see her mother as her worst enemy, that won't allow her to go to a club or to hang out with her friends until midnight. But, if the conflicts in this period will have a good end, when the daughter will be twenty or thirty, her mother will become her best friend.

The relationship between a mother and her daughter is the original one; no matter how hard you will try to replace it, you won't succeed. The mother is an irreplaceable person, she understands all her daughter's problems and she would even give her life to help her. A lot of mother is boys and girls also say that they love their sons, but they always had a special relationship with their daughters, even when they were arguing. Sometimes, for a mother is hard to accept the fact that her pretty girl, the one with cute pink dress, isn't a girl anymore; she is a young woman, ready to have her life. In general, mothers can't accept their daughters as adults, can't understand that they have a sexual life and their own money.

It is also very hard to understand when the daughter has to make her choices; there will be long conversations between the two regarding the girl's future. And in these discussions, the daughter will always understand in her mother's advice a way to control or to manipulate her, and the mother will always see her girl's responses as being rude. Although this, after a time, the daughter will become like her mother. Surprisingly, she will talk like mother, she will think life her, they will have similar tastes and even similar motions. The psychologists say that in our days, the young women are very scared and most of them are trying to avoid acting like their mothers. This fear is called matrophobia, but with the age, it will certainly disappear.

Over years, you will hear a lot of women describing their mother and daughter relationship as being amazing. And the most beautiful gift that a mother can offer is independence; the most spectacular present that a daughter can give to her mother is her love and her friendship.